Is Boudoir Right for Me?

(Spoiler: Yes, It Absolutely Is)

So, you’ve been scrolling Pinterest, saving those dreamy boudoir shots, and wondering: “Is boudoir photography really for me?”
The short answer? Yes. 100%. No doubt about it.

At Boudoir by Rae Taryn, I hear this question all the time. And trust me when I say—boudoir isn’t just for models, brides-to-be, or women who think they’ve finally reached their “goal weight.” Boudoir is for YOU. Right now. Exactly as you are.


Let’s break down some of the most common questions (and myths) I hear from women just like you:

“Do I have to lose weight before a boudoir session?”

Girl, no. Boudoir is not about being a certain size. It’s about showing up, embracing your body, and letting me pose and light you in ways that flatter every single curve. I specialize in guiding women of all shapes, sizes, and ages to feel confident and sexy—even if they’ve never stepped in front of a camera before.

plus sized woman in black lingerie during her boudoir photoshoot

“I’m not a model. Will I even know how to pose?”

You don’t have to. That’s my job! During your boudoir session, I’ll coach you through every pose, every expression, every little detail—even down to your fingertips. You don’t need to know how to “look sexy.” You just need to trust the process and let me handle the rest.

“Am I too old for boudoir?”

Listen: beauty doesn’t have an expiration date. I’ve photographed women in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond. Every age brings a different kind of confidence and energy to the session. You deserve to feel celebrated in this season of life—whether it’s post-baby, post-divorce, or just because you freaking want to.

“What if I’m nervous?”

Good. That means you’re stepping out